Making Halloween Fun for Every Child
Halloween is a time for spooky fun, but for kids whose brains work a bit differently — known as neurodivergent children — the loud and unexpected parts of the holiday can be too much. Things like flashing lights, loud noises, and new places can be especially tough for them to handle.
Thankfully, people are learning more about conditions like autism, and they're doing more to make sure every child can enjoy Halloween.
Understanding Kids Who Are Sensitive to Senses
Lots of neurodivergent kids are extra sensitive to what they see, hear, and feel. This means that Halloween, with all its chaos and surprises, can make them feel scared or upset.
In an article by Forbes, Victoria Handy, who is autistic and has a neurodivergent daughter herself, says she knows this well. She remembers feeling on edge and being seen as 'strange' during Halloween when she was younger.
Now, she prepares a calm space for her daughter so she can have fun like everyone else.
How Businesses Are Helping
Some places are stepping up to make Halloween better for these kids. Chuck E. Cheese, for instance, is having a "Boo-Tacular" event. On October 27, they'll open early with less noise and fewer people around, so kids who are sensitive can have fun in the arcade without feeling overwhelmed.
Victoria says these small changes make a big difference, making her daughter happy and setting an example for other businesses.
Chuck E. Cheese is also teaming up with Autism Speaks to bring more attention to making fun times work for every child. When families visit in October, they can give money to help with things like quiet visits with Santa during Christmas.
Top Tips for a Happy Halloween for Every Child
Dr. Keri Ann Currlin, a psychologist, offers advice for parents:
- Pick a costume that's comfy. Try it on before the big night and get used to it slowly if needed.
- Plan a short and familiar trick-or-treat route. Skip houses with too much going on that might cause worry.
- Handle candy carefully. Use a simple "first this, then that" chart to make things clear. Check candies together, especially if there are foods your child can't eat.
- If your child doesn't talk much, have a device or way for them to say "trick or treat" and "thank you."
- Even if you prepare, things might still get too much. Have a calm place to go or a different fun thing to do, like watching a movie at home.
There are helpful tools for families, too:
- 'Social Stories' are special tales you can customize to explain what Halloween will be like.
- Put up a sign saying your house welcomes autistic kids, so everyone knows what to expect.
- Find lists of costumes that are comfortable and badges that explain your child is neurodivergent if you're okay with sharing that.
What Everyone Can Do
Victoria points out that when places like Chuck E. Cheese are welcoming, it makes a big difference. It helps her daughter feel like she's not left out. Those kinds of changes not only bring new customers but also show that including everyone is great.
Sadly, many adults who are neurodivergent don't have jobs. So, businesses could hire more varied employees, which is good for everyone, especially when they need extra help like during the holiday season.
With some thoughtful planning by families and help from businesses, Halloween can be magical for all kids. The more we understand and include every child, the more we can all enjoy celebrating together.
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